Tuesday, February 18, 2014

We Love YSA!



This is what happens when Sister Hale takes the tape off of our white board during my weekly training conference call. (I'm done with training now!  How crazy is that?)


Just a sample of the member's delicious cooking!  Black Rice with mango and chicken!  Yum!  These YSA's know how to cook gluten/dairy free!  I should be coming home with some good recipes!

Look at these masterpieces!  Would you ever guess they are gluten and dairy free?  Sister Hale and I are going to be the pros at baking without gluten and dairy!  Thank goodness for rice flour and dairy free chocolate chips! :)  Next time we'll just add some applesauce so they're not as dry :)


Happy transfers!  Sister Hale and I will be staying together, serving in the Jax YSA Branch.  We will no longer be in Arlington, but will cover the East AND West stakes of YSA.  That includes 12 wards so we're going to be staying busy.  The other set of YSA sisters have been moved to a home ward so it will just be us and the Elders in YSA now.  We're super excited to be staying!  We love the members, the leaders, the missionaries we work with... everything!  Even with the occasional love drama... Oh, we will be staying in the same apartment too.

It's been a rough past few weeks for our companionship... we're not sure why.  We just decided that Satan hates us... which means we must be doing something right!  Right?  Haha, but we are looking forward to another transfer together.  This morning in our studies we sang the hymn We are All Enlisted and decided it should be our theme song (just read it!).

Even with some bumpy times there have been so many miracles!  This week we stopped in to meet a less active YSA named Teritia.  As we got there the Atlantic Beach Sisters were just leaving!  Neither one of us had set an appointment, it just "happened" to work out like that.  As we talked to Teritia she broke into tears because she knew we loved her and God loved her enough to send her two sets of sister missionaries in one day.  She is such a sweetheart and is wanting to get some good friends in her life.

A huge miracle this week happened in Dunn Ave.  We were literally backing out of our apartment to go to an appointment at Jacksonville University with our investigator there when our District Leader, Elder Dean, called and told us to get to the Dunn Ave building, "Right now!"  We explained we had an appointment, but he said we needed to be in Dunn Ave.  So we put our trust in our leader, canceled our appointment (did I mention we even had a member coming with us?), and made the 20 minute drive to Dunn Ave.  When we got there we saw Elders Dean and Parker sitting on the church lawn on some chairs with a YSA woman.  Her name is Shelby and she is amazing!  Here's her story:  She was raised going to Christian schools and loves the Bible.  In fact, it's her refuge in a home that is less than ideal.  She's been through some hard times and has felt so alone.  She had been praying for God to send her some good Christian friends, and this morning she had felt it would be "the day!"  She said she just felt so happy and didn't know why.  Well throughout the day some things took a turn for the worse and she ended up at the library where she sat down and began crying.  That's when Elder Dean approached her and asked what was wrong.  The Elders had been doing Facebook at the library (which is not where they normally go.)  They began talking and Shelby considered them her answer.  They walked across the street to the church, but couldn't be alone inside so the Elders pulled out some chairs and began to teach the Restoration.  Sister Hale and I got there in time to add a bit to the lesson.  You would have had to be blind to not see the light in Shelby's eyes.  She told us she knows what we were teaching is true because God answered her prayers by sending us to her.  She kept asking why she hadn't heard these things before, but she fully accepted what we taught her.  She was so excited when we gave her a copy of the Book of Mormon.  (The Elders saw her about two days later and she had read 16 chapters!)  She wanted to know about missionaries, and she asked if she would be expected to serve a mission.  She was totally willing to drop everything and go serve like we were!  Elder Dean invited her to be baptized and she accepted a date in March!!!  We are so excited for her!  We waited with her at the church waited for her ride to come.  While there Elder Dean came to us and said he had a feeling the Dunn Ave missionaries needed to teach her.  We all prayed about it, and Dunn Ave will teach her, but we are hoping to get her to YSA Family Home Evening or institute so she can begin to make those friends she was praying for.  Over time she will likely transition to YSA.  

On our way out the door to District Meeting Elder Dean called and asked if I could do a musical number on my flute (are you seeing a pattern here?  haha, he really had meant to ask me earlier he just forgot).  I was so excited!  District Meeting began, and who walks in but President and Sister Craig, along with their niece who will be leaving on a mission soon and came to get a preview of mission life.  Sister Hale gave a great training on using Preach My Gospel, and my musical number went really well... especially for no practice!  It was fun to have the Craigs join us!

I had the best Valentine's Day of my life last week!  Jeremy from the YSA Branch took all four Sister missionaries to dinner at Chipotle (which is kind of like Costa Vida).  The Elders' investigator came too.  She was going to invite the Elders, but we're not allowed to eat with the Elders so we avoid looking like a date. Have I told ya'll about this investigator?!?!  She was investigating last Spring I believe, and for a few months she stopped coming to church.  She's a bit of an eternigator, but she's ready now!  Elder Calder (Sister Hale's boyfriend) actually was one of the Elders who taught her.  The light in her eyes is incredible!  She comes to church each Sunday and she makes institute and other activities a priority.  Visitors have no idea that she hasn't been baptized yet.  Her baptism is in March and we're so excited for her!  So it was Jeremy and 5 women... we hope we didn't send the wrong message about Mormons...  haha.  While we were in line a woman behind us said to Jeremy, "Looks like you've got your hands full!"  We had a good time together!  

After dinner Sister Hale and I went to University of North Florida to teach Caitlin.  We had a great lesson on how the Book of Mormon and Bible work together.  She really had her eyes opened about their connections.  Then she asked about temples.  We had the wonderful opportunity to bear testimony about eternal families.  I can't think of a better way to spend a Valentine's Day night!  

Saturday afternoon we had three sets of sisters go to Pete's house for service.  It felt so good to get outside and do some yard work.  It is really warming up here!  It feels like April in Utah!  Only the calendar reminds me it's February!  That evening Sister Hale and I taught Pete the Plan of Salvation.  It went really well and we set a baptism date with Pete.  He came to the conclusion that he should come to church.  We were going to invite him anyway, but his own conclusion was so much better!  Have I mentioned Pete's cooking hobby?  He made all six sisters a full meal to take home of roast beef, beans, potato salad, coleslaw, brownies, cake....  Mmmmm...

Sunday was a full day!  We went to an Arlington meeting before church.  Pete and Amy came to church!  He cried in Sacrament meeting!  He didn't want to leave when it was over!  We had time for dinner before driving to YSA.  After church was a linger-longer, and then we had a fireside on missionary work with President and Sister Craig.  THEN there was a fireside for investigators with President Craig and some recent converts speaking.  We pulled some strings, said some prayers, and got an investigator to come!  This girl is friends with someone the Zone Leaders are teaching.  She has sat in on some lessons, but hasn't really connected with them.  Lately, however, she's been talking to me on Facebook and we've gotten to know each other better!  The fireside was really great! We also got to see Shelby again!  

Missionary life is hard, but those miracles make it all worth it!  I love ya'll!  

Sister Murray

P.S.  The Zone Leaders are staying, Sister Fife is staying in Arlington and Sister McCleary is going to Hendricks.  Elder Dean is being transferred and will be a Zone Leader!  And his companion, Elder Parker (who came out with me) will be our new District Leader and will be training a new missionary!  

P.S.S  I forgot to mention that last Sunday Sister Hale and I did a violin/flute duet in the YSA ward.  It went really well and it was so fun!  Sister Petramolo accompanied us on the piano.  We played I Know That My Redeemer Lives.  The first speaker was asked to choose a hymn to speak on and she chose the same one!  It was such a wonderful tender mercy!!!  

AND THANK YA'LL FOR THE VALENTINE'S!!!  I've felt so much love from your notes, treats, gifts, cards, letters, and prayers!  Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Monday, February 10, 2014

New Technology Hastening the Work






JAX East Zone Conference
With President Craig at Zone Conference

Here's a bunch of the JAX YSA Branch at Ashley's baptism. Sisters Petramolo and Pasko (purple shirts on the right, in front of me) taught her. Jacob Rutland is in the back far left. He is the one who stopped working on the golf course on Sundays for church. If his life is the only one I change on my mission that will be enough! I LOVE all of these people so so much!
Look what we found on the way to Zone Conference!  Sister Hale has officially decided I am Rapunzel.  (I have magical hair that glows..Bad lighting Sorry!)



Feb 10, 2014
It was another slow week.  It was also another week full of laughs, but this week there were a few more headaches if you catch what I mean. :)  But that's ok.  Sometimes we need a hard time to help us grow and to help us appreciate the good times.  Aaron will not be baptized at this time, and that's been hard for Sister Hale and myself, but we do have other investigators that are progressing!  And it's important for me to remember that they all have their agency.  All we can do is guide them to come closer to Christ.  They have to actually chose to take each step or not.

A highlight of this week was Zone Conference.  Since Jax East is the smallest Zone, we met in the Fernidina building with the Kingsland Zone.  Elder Young was one of the first missionaries I saw there!  He is doing great, and he had some really wonderful comments during the meeting.  Tell his family he is a great missionary (including on Facebook!)  At Zone Conference every missionary got his or her own IPad Mini!  I LOVE THEM SO MUCH!!! 
     Just a few of the benefits of having an IPad:
       -No sheets of paper with important information getting misplaced, which means previous investigators don't fall through the cracks!
       -Our planning book calculates how many lessons we had, and decides if our investigator is actually progressing
       -All of the missionaries in an area can be in a conversation in IMessage instead of trying to text each   companionship individually
      -We can show videos in lessons
      -We can facetime or skype lessons: which means we can have a lesson with a single man if we can't get another girl to come and we could even do a lesson when someone is out of town or during a work break
      -Someone suggested pulling up to the church (for internet access) to see who's on Facebook then asking to come by in a few minutes (wouldn't you rather learn about your Salvation than waste hours on Facebook?)
      -Soon priesthood leaders will be able to get online and look at all of our plans and teaching information
      -If we have a referral for missionaries in another area we can send it directly to them rather than going through the mission office

The list could go on and on, and the best part is that there are ideas yet to come!  Our mission is the third in the world to get them, so wish us success! 

At the Zone Conference we watched a clip of President Kimball talking about hastening the work with technology.  He must have seen our IPads and not have known how to describe them!  He compared radio towers to King Benjamin's tower which allowed people all across the land to hear the gospel.  I know that Heavenly Father is providing means for the gospel to reach every corner of the earth.  I would encourage each of you to use it for such a purpose!  Post a favorite scripture on Facebook, email a Mormon message to a friend... the possibilities are endless!

Our miracle with technology this week was that we were able to share a Mormon message with our investigator, Caitlin, when our appointment fell through.  She messaged us back on Facebook and told us it made her cry.  She then opened up about reading the Book of Mormon!  It was amazing! 

Well, ya'll I wish you the best blessed week!!!

(Also, transfers are on Feb. 18th so please don't mail anything that would get to me after Monday the 17th.  So probably don't send anything after this Wednesday to be safe.  By the way, thank you so much for the letters and packages!  They really brighten my days!)

Love,
Sister Murray


Monday, February 3, 2014

What Did We Do This Week?


9:09 AM

The past week was kind of rough. Sister Hale and I haven't been feeling negative about it or anything, but yesterday we were looking back and it seems like not much happened. Most of our appointments fell through, we made another trip to the doctor, and the baptism we were planning on this week didn't happen.

On Tuesday Sister Hale was re-diagnosed with Bronchitis. No fun! I've been very blessed to remain as well as I have! That night we had institute, and then went to the mission home. President Craig wanted to check in with Sister Hale and see how she is doing. I spent most of the time putting papers into sheet protectors with the Craig's daughter-in-law. Oh, I lied last week! It was their son visiting, not daughter! It was fun to just talk to them, and see the Craig's adorable granddaughter again! I miss my nieces and nephews!!!

It was cold at the beginning of this week. Yes. Cold! I found out I can fit fuzzy socks on under two pairs of tights then my legs and feet don't get so cold though! ...even if it makes my feet look a bit more wide... but who looks at your feet anyway? Oh, fun fact! I found out that one of the other YSA sisters, Sister Pasko, has Raynauds like me! So, Mom and Dad you can know that I'm not alone out here with purple hands and feet! haha! :) I truly am grateful I was sent somewhere warm. I don't know if my body could handle tracting in anything much colder for too long!

We had three dinners this week, which was fun. Ruby took us to lunch at a Chinese Buffet. Sister Pennington fed us, and the other sisters with their investigator. We got to follow their tradition of looking for a pickle ornament on their Christmas tree before receiving our Christmas present from them. (They had been sick around Christmas time and still wanted us to enjoy their Christmas traditions!) Then we decorated sugar cookies to deliver to their neighbors. Saturday evening we had dinner with a member family in Dunn Ave. and their cousin, Charlie, who is an investigator.

On Sunday in the Arlington ward we taught gospel principles, and President and Sister Craig happened to be visiting! And in the YSA branch, our investigator, Caitlin came to church for the first time! She LOVED it! At the end someone made a comment on how it doesn't seem like three hours, and she said, "has it really been three hours?" EVERYONE was SO welcoming!!! I love that we know investigators can come to this ward and be fellowshipped so quickly.

Honestly, it seems like not a lot happened this week, but there were a lot of small successes. Sister Hale and I are getting so much better at talking together. By the end of the week we were finishing each others sentences. Last night our District Leader called and he asked if we ever had bad weeks because we always seem so happy about everything. We told him we did have a rough week, but there were still things going well. One thing that I think really helps me and Sister Hale stay positive is that we can work hard, but we also have a lot of fun! We get into laughing fits all the time... sometimes while knocking on doors... and other times when the District Leader calls (which makes him think we've gone crazy, but that's ok too!). I love the quote by Marjorie Pay Hinckley:

“The only way to get through life is to laugh your way through it. You either have to laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. Crying gives me a headache.”

Isn't it so true! Especially on a mission! You can cry when people shut the door in your face or you can laugh at the expression they gave when you said you were Mormon. And we sure have had some good laughs! Sister Hale told me that when she was talking to President Craig in his home he asked how we were getting along. She included that we laugh, and he said that's why we were placed in the YSA branch. So, long story short: enjoy your life! Really! We can easily get caught up in the stress and imperfections, and I am definitely not saying I haven't done that. BUT I know that when we choose to stay positive we find more joy, and we feel the spirits’ presence so much stronger.

One more exciting part of this week! The first of February!!! I mentioned that the Zone Leaders extended the challenge to choose one thing to fast from in January. I was drawing blanks. I had heard about missionaries fasting from treats while their investigators were giving up smoking and other habits so I decided I'd go with a fast from sugar. I defined my fast as candy, desserts, and pop. Pop was easy for me, candy was slightly tempting, especially when my family sent me junior mints! But the hardest was when members made desserts for us. Gratefully every meal this month we were with understanding members who were actually really intrigued by the fact that I turned down desserts (I wouldn't have done it if I didn't know the members would be completely fine with it, and I would take it home to freeze if I could so I can tell them how good it is! I have plenty of cake in the freezer... :) ) I learned a lot from this experience. One- that I can do it. Two- what it's like to live on a specified diet. Poor Sister Hale is always having to make changes to fit her diet, and we have been working with several people who have Crohns, diabetes, allergies... So I'm grateful to have received a little taste of what these people live with every day.

I wish ya'll a happy week!
Love, Sister Murray


Here is the Florida Jacksonville Mission Called to Serve 3rd Verse:

Called to be a chosen generation
Preach my Gospel is a sacred call
Jax is white and ready now to harvest
We go forth to gather all
Onward ever onward
Teach and baptize in his name
Onward ever onward
Every member we'll retain
Goooo forward, pressing forward (On "go" we fist pump our arm in the air)
As a triumph song we'll sing
God our strength will be;
Press forward ever called to serve my King!