Me with my new companion, Sister Elliot |
First "Red is for Courage" package then "Yellow for Service" Is blue next? |
It is probably a good thing my focus Christlike attribute for the
month is obedience, because it was really, really hard for me to leave
Hendricks and come to a new area with a new companion.
"And it came to pass that I, Nephi, said unto my father: I
will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the
Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a
way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them."
1 Nephi 3:7
This has always been my favorite scripture. I think my mom thought
I would grow up and choose another favorite, but this one is always near to my
heart. In RS on Sunday I was asked to share my favorite verse and as I read
this one it really hit me. God doesn't give us any commandments we cannot
fulfill, and then we receive blessings. I know Heavenly Father needs me here in
Kingsland at this time for a purpose perhaps only He knows for now, but I am
grateful he trusts me to do His work. I was also grateful Dad shared this verse
with me explaining that one reason I was transferred might be so I can learn
the truthfulness of this verse one more time before I return home. That is
absolutely true!
This week...
Tuesday I was able to finish packing fairly quickly and Sister
Gillman and I had a relaxing day including ice cream! I was still in shock that
I was leaving Hendricks, but it was a good day. Right after P Day we had dinner with the Murray's... Maybe
we're related! They told us how they met online and Sister Murray had about
five men with the last name of Murray from all over the country trying to
virtually date her so when this Brother Murray came along she thought it was a
scam. Gratefully he convinced her otherwise. We enjoyed being with them and
here is my first Georgia Miracle. I was telling the Murray's that I would be
going to Georgia the next day. They asked what part. I told them I would be in
the St. Mary's area (which I only knew because Mom called the mission office to
ask for my address. Otherwise I would have only known I was going to the
Kingsland area.) Well Brother Murray said he has a less active uncle who lives
in St. Mary's! And his wife is not a member. He thinks they would be willing to
come to church! There was a miracle! We spent the rest of the evening
saying goodbye to people.
Wednesday we stopped by the Zielinski's. I brought my flute and
Sister Zielinski and I played a little bit together. I think they were
disappointed when I told them I wasn't studying music... Oh well. It was fun.
Then we headed to Mandarin for the transfer meeting. It was so strange to think
that in six weeks I would be one of the missionaries giving a departing
testimony. President Craig told us each to pray and study to find our purpose
in our new areas so I decided I would do that.
I was able to find Sister Elliott and we loaded all of my stuff
into Bishop Tucker's truck. He and his wife came to pick us up! I just love the
Tuckers so much already! They are converts to the church and are so full of
love. Sister Elliott is from Kennewick, Washington. She is going to BYU
studying Middle Eastern Studies. She knows Arabic and even did a study abroad
in Jordan and went to Jerusalem. She is so smart! During her personal studies
she reads from both English and an Arabic Book of Mormon. She is the fourth out
of 7 children and says she has too many nieces and nephews to keep track of. She
has been on her mission for 14 1/2 months and she also served in Hendricks at
one point. Her area was closed when she left and the Elders replaced them. She
plays piano and likes to sing and she is 23.
That evening the Tuckers took us out to dinner, and after we
picked up some groceries we went to the church for Ward coordination.
Apparently our Ward mission leader is gone on a trip traveling across the
country... so I may or may not meet him! He has a temporary substitute though
named Brother Adams. The Elders in our Ward are the Zone Leaders- Elder Bell
and Elder Wall. They are both super nice and I am looking forward to working
with them. Elder Wall is from California and Elder Bell is from Rigby
Idaho.
Thursday morning we biked over to a sweet elderly lady's home to
help her organize some of her family history work. It was nice to be on my bike
(and gratefully the apartment has a bike pump.) and we had fun serving her. We
also did service for the sweetest elderly couple named the Ingersons. By this point
the members in Kingsland had completely won over my heart! They are so kind and
loving and think of others, they just want to take care of you and adopt you
into their family. Southern Hospitality is a real thing. That night we
also met the most incredible recent converts- Dan and Priscilla Kirkland.
The sisters baptized them just before I got here. You would think they had been
members their whole lives. They have a seven year old girl who can't wait to
turn eight in August and a 2 year old girl who is so cute! We hadn't planned to
see them that night, but Priscilla texted us asking if there was some kind of
"flow-chart" to show the order of the leadership in the church. Yah,
she is incredible and she just wants to know everything about the church. We
went over and drew a flow chart for her as well as giving her the talk
"What is the Blueprint of Christ's Church?" by Elder Callister.
We had a long weekly planning session on Friday which seems to be
normal your first week in the area. We met with an investigator named
Ronnie in the park. He seems to have a lot of questions. It will be good to
work with him. He was supposed to be baptized a couple weeks ago, but the
sisters found out he is on parole so we have to wait until August when he is
off unless he can pay it off sooner. I think it's a good thing though that he
will have more time to learn because he really has some interesting ideas. He
says God told him he could have Sunday off and not come to church and he has a
hard time praying. I think he knows more than he gives himself credit
for.
It seems as though every Ward in the South has a young woman
spaghetti dinner fundraiser. Ours happened to be this night. The missionaries
get in for free, but we did make a cake to be auctioned. The young woman in the
Ward decided to have tacos as an option too... interesting combination, but hey
it works! It was good to meet some more members there and I was able to meet
some of the Elders gators. We had to leave before our cake was sold (it went
for $50) to go to an appointment. Well I misunderstood, this appointment was
also a dinner appointment and they made more spaghetti for us! It is a good
thing I like spaghetti. The woman we were meeting with has had such a crazy
life. She and her husband and his brother live in a motel room with her
daughter. It is the saddest thing. It is also the sketchiest area I've seen so
far in Georgia. We are definitely going to do our best to plan our visits there
for the daytime hours from now on.
Saturday we planned to do some yard work for a less active sister
named Sister Pappas. Well she decided that for service she just wanted us to
help her grocery shop. I felt slightly apostate shopping in jeans on a
Saturday, but we were able to help her get the things she couldn't from her
motor scooter chair. She took us out for lunch after at Sonney's BBQ. I am
going to miss the good bbq here in the South!
We had a hard time getting in our Golden hour (an hour of inspired
finding) and I really wanted to get out and find. It's frustrating being new in
the area because I don't know where to suggest going or anyone to see, and
Sister Elliott has only been here one transfer. So I am learning to balance and
apply both patience and diligence. We did get to go to a street we planned to
knock on Saturday afternoon! We had a goal to teach one other lesson and find
one new gator. Most of the houses were abandoned, no one was home, or they
weren't interested, or a huge dog was guarding the door and there was no way to
get up to it. On the corner though we met a man named Tyrone. I had seen his
cute two year old daughter playing as we drove in and wanted to knock on his
door. He was sitting outside watching her and he listened to us. He accepted
the Book of Mormon and he became a new gator! God is good! It felt incredible
to achieve our goals!
Right after that we met the Relief Society president, Sister
Draper, and a counselor in the Primary, Sister Ingram. They took us to get food
and then we delivered dinners to people in the Ward. We learned that the
Bishop's wife had cut her hand that morning and had to get stitches. It also
meant they hadn't been able to go in the Ward temple trip that day. Sister
Draper didn't want Bishop to know she had made the meal herself rather than
assigning someone to so we decided to doorbell ditch it. We dropped off Sister Ingram
and drove to the end of the caul de sac. As we were driving back to get Sister
Ingram, who was hiding behind a bush, we noticed too late that Bishop was standing
on the porch waiting to see who would show up. We were caught, but we picked up
Sister Ingram and drove away like we didn't see him. We were all laughing so
hard. Bishop ended up using the story in his talk the next day so it was
perfect timing for him!
It was wonderful to meet more of the Ward on Sunday! Our Ward
covers all of Camden County! It's huge, but there are a ton of less active
members so the attendance isn't all that high. We have 9:00 church and then
Ward Council directly after. We were invited to lunch with Sister Jones, the
classiest woman in the Ward. She is so great! She owns two daycares in the
area. Here is the second part of my miracle- she lives in a gated community,
and guess who else lives in that community! Brother Murray's Uncle Arnold! (If
you can remember clear back to the beginning of this novel) We wouldn't have
been able to get past the guard if we hadn't had that appointment! So that was
great! Sister Jones did feed us some delicious fried chicken, bbq ribs, baked
beans, biscuits, the complete Southern works! Yum! We went home and had some
time to study before going out for a golden hour... except the street we were
trying to find didn't exist! It was an adventure to say the least. Then we were
also invited to dinner with the Bartlings (apparently this Ward doesn't feed us
much... I'm not convinced). President Bartling is the stake president. He is
from Germany and definitely has that strict German air about him. But we had an
enjoyable time with the Bartlings and their four sons. The oldest is going on a
mission this July.
We were able to meet with Ronnie again and talked about receiving
answers through the spirit. It was a really great lesson in the Murdock's home.
Sister Murdock is from Scotland and I love her accent!
Wow, sorry this is such a novel! Guess I just wanted to let y'all
experience my mission! Being a missionary is the absolute best! It is hard but
it is always worth it.
Next week I will tell y'all about Mighty Miracle May! Be excited!
So many miracles are coming!
I love all y'all sooo much!
Have a blessed day!
Sister Murray